Lately we hear about the school teachers going off to prison, or we see relationships on the tele, like Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, and men have always dated much younger women. Do you think older women should date younger men? The reason I ask is because my aunt in her 40's tells me she is with a man in his 20's? All I was thinking is it won't work, and she thinks otherwise. I am happy for her, but at the same time, I just don't get it. d
What say you all?
I just wanted to add, that there are a lot of guys these days that deal only with older women, now my aunt is a successful women i can't help but wonder what he sees in her, I am pretty sure what she sees in him she is probably attached to some great sex, and the ego boost, but man I just don't get it.
Complicated Ques really.. but I believe there are two answers to this.
Ans 1 in Western Society Its each to their own ppl will live their lives according to their needs.. and this is the #1 reason for age difference relationships! the relationship meets a speciifc need of both parties.
Usually the relationship will last as long as both parties "specific" needs are forfilled.
Ans 2 reaching back into African history ..and still in sections of African Society today. what we would (in the west) call children 12yr old girl 15 yr old boy
are considered young adults ... with the girls old enough to marry ( usually older men)
And boys old enough to Train or Work for their living.. and this system works very well in as much as . The young adults lives become more productive and useful to their communites at a much younger age.
@For the girls many more children can be born ..and when these children have children of their own the grandmothers are still agile and so are far more useful to their Daughters and grand childrens lives...
@For the boys they develop into Responsible!! Men at a very young age and as such can Mentally and physically Maintain the needs of wife & family without issue ..not to mention contribute to his community. ..
Sooo to answer the orginal Ques
This couple Auntie and young Man are getting exactly what they!!! need from each other .. and I dont think it cause for concern.. after all they are both consenting adults!