- Apr 7, 2013
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Unless she has another man on the side..... LIKE HE HAS OTHER SWIMSUIT MODELS ON THE SIDE.... she didn't want to sex him. She just wants his money.... and he knows it. Otherwise, why did he talk about her being scared of losing the money he made? There was no love in this relationship.If the sex wasn't good in the first place then she shouldn't have committed to the relationship or had him sticking around which was a waste of his two years. It is obvious that he was sexually attracted to her by constantly trying to get intimate with her. So its not always about what the man is doing or not doing right or wrong. She neglected him so he found another form of pleasure without going out the house and getting physically intimate with strange women or as we call it; cheating.
If you reread the initial post you will see that he's been trying to have sex with this woman and she's been rejecting him so I'm wondering how is this turning into him having sexual issues or hangups?
1. He pays women for their favors (if she's looking at his bankbook, so are the other swimsuit models).
2. Instead of looking for a woman to have an actual relationship with similar or complementary likes and dislikes, goals and aspirations rather than just eye candy/sex, he turned to a inanimate computer with pix flickering across the screen, to "help" him satisfy his sexual needs.
He has issues, both sexual and emotional.
Men wanting to get into a relationship with a woman "pursue" women. According to him, they already ARE in a relationship, ergo, swimsuit model was rejecting beer belly because she didn't want him, she wanted his bank.He was pursuing her and she was rejecting him.
I'm responding to this post because there seems to be a bait and switch tactic going on and I'm not accusing you of doing as such - but I am curious as to why you are finding fault with this man when it was his woman who neglect him and not the other way around?
Ole boy's only fault is that he doesn't like women. He wants a woman for sexual gratification, and since he has to pay either way, he's opted for the purely sex for play - the computer.
Swimsuit model? She wants his wallet, not the body that goes along with it.
I'm starting to wonder if SOME of our sistas are hardwired to find fault with the man despite clear data that suggest otherwise?
The data is clear indeed. The 250 lb. super nerd with the big beer belly has multiple women who look like swimsuit models. Because they are using him for his bank, he's turned to an inaminate object (that he also has to pay) to help him fantasize to orgasm. If he'd give a woman on his own level a chance (and swimsuit model-types aren't!), maybe he'd find happiness in a decent relationship that consists of more than sex on demand.