Absolutely ...
I sat up and analyzed that video back and forward - that guy in the video must maintain a manly persona to the public hence this video he's declaring his hate for women but at the same time he must declare his disdain for homosexuality in order not to be seen as gay. To me this video was more of a cry out for help. He included his mother and sister in the video but at the same time he said he loved them. He gave women good instructions in concerns to getting a good man yet he hate women? Its really not about the women - its like he wants someone to crack the mystery for him through outlets like youtube and so forth. Sure he's going to go off on men who call him gay but that's the reassurance he seems to be looking for.
In a sense its almost as though he used the internet as a testing mechanism, you know? There were two forms of testing he was giving through this video:
1.) Can he take angry reactions from people and more importantly women - because the women in his life may react as some of the women on the internet. If he's able to handle that then he will be able to handle them. Part 1 of the test.
2.) Does he have the courage it takes to out himself in front of everyone he knows? People he knows might catch a hold of that video and how will they respond to his views. He keeps saying he don't give a @!#$ what people think but in reality he does because if he didn't he wouldn't have said he don't give a ****. Point 2b) He basically hid his face through the whole video as not to be seen but it wasn't until the end that he actually found the courage to let his face be seen - a man that doesn't give a @!#$ doesn't hid his face. The internet is his training grounds to come out clean with his desires.
You are absolutely right - women force their kids to go to church - I know mines did and we don't want to disappoint our mothers especially knowing their religious views. When I left the church scene I had a hard time talking to my mom about it because she was like 'I didn't raise you like this boy' lol.
He will eventually come clean with his hidden desires because it appears that he's making waves to do it through the resources of the internet.
Again my opinion but this appears to be what he's doing.
Peace
Ru2religious
Oh My Gosh Brother RU2Religious ... i so agree !!! I think it is a cry for help too !!!
He's asking for someone to help him crack this mystery ... just like you said ... and what a mystery it is ... in his mind he thinks he hates women (his own Mother and Sister, how bad can that be?!) and he is homophobic, having all kinds of homosexual thots ... and doesn't even know what that makes him ... he's lingering in this tortured limbo place, where there is no real designation for him ... just lost and looking for someone to find him!
You're right ... he says some good things about women, kinda peeking thru the conversation, in the same manner that his face peeks thru ... and his desires for homosexual interaction peeks thru ... everything has to peek thru, because he's not able to embrace any of it fully, with his whole heart, right now.
He probably loves his Mother and Sister, just doesn't know how to please them. They've probably told him that homosexuality is bad, he grew up with that being instilled in him, and now he doesn't know what to do with it. It's just easier to hate them, than deal with the realities before him. Not only will his Mother and Sister probably be disappointed to learn he may be homosexual, but he's been taught that God will be disappointed too ... what a bummer ... there's no place to hide, no shelter from what's inside of him ... and they planted the seeds in him ... because he probably knows homosexuals that are in good standing with the Creator (even if only in their own minds), that have Mothers and Sisters that love them, in spite of their choices ... but he doesn't have any of that ... and he's not blaming it on God ... he doesn't seem to hate God ... he's hating the women in his Family!
I wouldn't be surprised to learn, that his Mother and Sister don't have a clue that he's dealing with this. They probably see the anger, wrath, etc., but it's all veiled ... they're probably confused ... not understanding what is driving their Son or Brother away ... because i'm sure he's not having these candid conversations with them (for if he were, the problem wouldn't be what it is) ... you're right ... he's using the Internet to build up his nerve maybe, to come clean to them, put all the marbles on the table ... though i don't see him addressing the core issues any time soon, with them or his own self, without some help.
As a Mother, it would be a hard pill for me to swallow, that my Son is homosexual ... but i'd love him still ... and i'd like to think his Mother would too ... but she doesn't even know it's all inside of him like this.
Lots of anger, foolishness, krazee behavior being demonstrated without those closest to him knowing what is at the root of it.
Yes ... he feels all alone and is crying out for help.
I agree with you.
Love You!
Destee