I've mentioned several times throughout my postings that I'm atheist.
Simply put, it means I do not believe in, adhere too or honor any deities, gods, goddesses, or holy books of any religion.
If you are that way, you might not call yourself an atheist, you might call yourself non-religious - probably meaning you adhere to no specific religious denominations but have some spiritual or 'higher conscious' meaning and power.
The upside to being an atheist is that I'm free and not bounded by religious mores, doctrine, and control. I don't have to worry about my inherent hypocrisy between doing what I want or what feels right and knowing that it goes against the religious values I been taught.
The downside, for me, has been that in times of stress, hurt, depression, dire need (physical, emotional, psychological), our just feeling like an utterly wounded and worthless soul..... there is no outside force that you can depend on or 'pray too' to help you deal with these problems or issues. There is nothing higher than yourself.... and so many of these problems feel so beyond and above what one can humanly and possibly do to change it. It can and has created a kind of despair.
So I'm asking others who are atheist and non-religious what do you do to find comfort, solace, harmony, and content in your life? How do you deal with your stresses, or with problems such as stressful finances or relationships (all types of relationships - friends, familial, intimate), or when you try to move forward 2 steps and instead of one step back you've taken 3 steps back. The more you forward, the further back you go.
I think meditation probably helps, which is harnessing the power of the mind to change your physical life and surrounding - which fits very well for an atheist since the human being is the 'highest' religious and spiritual authority; and it fits well with the points made in the movies 'The Secret' and 'What the (Bleep) Do We Know.'
But I have little patience for meditating and I'm lousy on imagery manifestation.
I found a lot of comfort in books, especially black self-help.
Some suggestions on either of those and more, and whatever helps you would be nice.
Simply put, it means I do not believe in, adhere too or honor any deities, gods, goddesses, or holy books of any religion.
If you are that way, you might not call yourself an atheist, you might call yourself non-religious - probably meaning you adhere to no specific religious denominations but have some spiritual or 'higher conscious' meaning and power.
The upside to being an atheist is that I'm free and not bounded by religious mores, doctrine, and control. I don't have to worry about my inherent hypocrisy between doing what I want or what feels right and knowing that it goes against the religious values I been taught.
The downside, for me, has been that in times of stress, hurt, depression, dire need (physical, emotional, psychological), our just feeling like an utterly wounded and worthless soul..... there is no outside force that you can depend on or 'pray too' to help you deal with these problems or issues. There is nothing higher than yourself.... and so many of these problems feel so beyond and above what one can humanly and possibly do to change it. It can and has created a kind of despair.
So I'm asking others who are atheist and non-religious what do you do to find comfort, solace, harmony, and content in your life? How do you deal with your stresses, or with problems such as stressful finances or relationships (all types of relationships - friends, familial, intimate), or when you try to move forward 2 steps and instead of one step back you've taken 3 steps back. The more you forward, the further back you go.
I think meditation probably helps, which is harnessing the power of the mind to change your physical life and surrounding - which fits very well for an atheist since the human being is the 'highest' religious and spiritual authority; and it fits well with the points made in the movies 'The Secret' and 'What the (Bleep) Do We Know.'
But I have little patience for meditating and I'm lousy on imagery manifestation.
I found a lot of comfort in books, especially black self-help.
Some suggestions on either of those and more, and whatever helps you would be nice.