Black Women : Taking Sex Out of the Equation...

[SwagII]

I might agree with you here.

 

[Wrx2011]

I disagree with this premise. Because Sex happens, does not mean that sex is "the priority". Evidenced by the fact that Homosexual relationships also feature "Sex". Further evidenced by the fact that.. even without females or other males.. Men still have a compulsion to ejaculate... which is why the porn industry is so profitable.

So.. minus that premise, and injecting a bit of humanity.. your question then becomes:

Why would a man desire to be with a woman?

It depends on the man and the woman. There are many different needs that we fill through relationships with others. Most of those relationships are not sexual.

So there are as many answers to this question as their are individuals.. but if this is a real question.. you can find the answer
in your own experience.. by analyzing the non-sexual relationships you have with women. For example.. your sister.. your cousin.. your classmates.. your co-workers.. your mother.. Destee.. to name a few.

-Context is everything.

I dont see the disagreement. Regarding the OP's premise or his context. He made a statement that "the average male female relationship, physical sexual intimacy is USUALLY a priority." Which I can see when and where that may apply. When it doesnt apply, it doesnt apply. It's just that simple. You countered : Because sex happens does not mean that sex is "the priority". Thats a Straw Man statement/argument that doesnt match his premise or his statement. The "the priority" introduction, is a different context of what was conveyed by the OP.

Sex being "the priority", and him simply stating physical sexual intimacy is usually a priority by an average male female relationship, they do not have the same contextual meanings. That one word "usually" has to be factored into the whole statement. Not dismissed like it doesnt exist. One can have many priorities concurrently. That doesnt mean one is claiming sex is "the priority" just because they say physical sexual intimacy is usually a priority. Unless that information is actually conveyed or provided.

Further, the OP came back and added more context by explaining that "it may not be equal in priorities". That statement can be interpreted a few ways as well. What does he mean by it may not be equal in priorities? And how does that part match with your subtle re-interpretation, implying that physical sexual intimacy was conveyed as "the priority"?