Ladies and Gents: Please take a moment to give me your definition of SEX APPEAL. I was told at a very early age and over the years by several acquaintances that I have sex appeal, or that I am sexy. Didn't really know what it meant back then in my early 20's. But, now that I am older, in my late 30's, I think I finally know what it means. My husband says his initial attraction to me and the reason he married me is because I was sexy as a mutha f***a. I was hoping he would say, that I was whitty, intelligent, etc. But, he says it was the pep in my step, my raspy voice, the way I dressed and carried myself. Please let me know what your definition is? Thanks.