Black Relationships : Young Guys Want Intimacy As Well As SEX

Very Interesting. I wonder, though, if the reporter took note that the desire for intimacy, not just sex, also carries with age? I noticed that no one seemed to give any thought to this. Giving testimony of self, I was always a guy who wanted intimacy, not just sex, and I've been burned by females who claimed to want love and to be respected, but ended up being unloving and disrespectful, a pattern that hadn't stopped even to my marriage. The desire remains, but these days, my approach is different, and I'm a bit more distrustful, I'm sorry to say. Too many are into blame instead of being accountable for their choices, and using the blame game as a device to usher in disrespect to my side of the relationship, regardless of the fact that I've done nothing to hurt them. I won't give up hope, though.
 
Very Interesting. I wonder, though, if the reporter took note that the desire for intimacy, not just sex, also carries with age? I noticed that no one seemed to give any thought to this. Giving testimony of self, I was always a guy who wanted intimacy, not just sex, and I've been burned by females who claimed to want love and to be respected, but ended up being unloving and disrespectful, a pattern that hadn't stopped even to my marriage. The desire remains, but these days, my approach is different, and I'm a bit more distrustful, I'm sorry to say. Too many are into blame instead of being accountable for their choices, and using the blame game as a device to usher in disrespect to my side of the relationship, regardless of the fact that I've done nothing to hurt them. I won't give up hope, though.



1. It is a myth that females mature quicker than males. One only has to look at the situations they end up in as proof

2. It is also a myth that they are more intuitive. Because they cant seem to know the difference between a Mookie and a nice guy.


In short, they have just as many faults as we do, if not more. You cant help a train wreck or damaged goods. We don't learn that until it's too late. There are good females out there who are just as jaded. Finding each other is the hard part





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