Indeed, finding each other IS the hard part.1. It is a myth that females mature quicker than males. One only has to look at the situations they end up in as proof
2. It is also a myth that they are more intuitive. Because they cant seem to know the difference between a Mookie and a nice guy.
In short, they have just as many faults as we do, if not more. You cant help a train wreck or damaged goods. We don't learn that until it's too late. There are good females out there who are just as jaded. Finding each other is the hard part