karmashines said:But anyway, do you see what I'm trying to say about 50% of it being the other partner's responsibility for not telling you if they knew they had it? Having sex with someone unprotected when you know you have a deadly STD is like putting a loaded gun to someone's head.
Certainly, if they knew they had it, they should tell their partner beforehand.
I'm still not convinced that anything that happens in my life, is 50% someone else's responsibility.
Most things in my life, are precipitated by a decision i make ... and it is at that very focused and specific moment in time ... that i accept full responsibility for what takes place thereafter.
Yes, it can go better or worse depending on how others act ... but all of that comes after i make the initial decision.
I choose whether i want to give these folk any influence in my life, 50% or otherwise.
Based on the poll results above, the correct answer to the question, is as diverse as we are!
It's all good.

Destee