Black Relationships : You Got a STD - Who's Fault Is It?

You Got a STD - Who's Fault Is It?

  • Mine

    Votes: 6 27.3%
  • Theirs

    Votes: 3 13.6%
  • Both

    Votes: 11 50.0%
  • Blame it on everyone ...

    Votes: 1 4.5%
  • Blame it on the rain ...

    Votes: 1 4.5%

  • Total voters
    22

Destee

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Hello Family,

I'm a firm believer that we are responsible for the choices we make, and all possible consequences that could come, as a result of those choices. This includes contracting a sexually transmitted disease.

While i'd be quite upset, to say the least, if i contracted some STD from someone ... it would be very difficult for me to see past my own decision of laying down with this person ... making the choice ... allowing the situation to exist ... deciding to open myself up to this risk ... it would be very difficult for me to see past these things, to look at the other person's culpability in the situation.

I had full and complete control and responsibility ... for the health and well-being of my body ... and willingly relinquished it.

If i had never made the decision, to lay with them, none of this would be happening.

I'm talking consenting adults here.

What do you all think?

If you get a STD ... who's fault is it ... yours or theirs?

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Destee

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lol Brother James ... it wasn't me! :)

i added an option in the poll ... just for you Brother James! :love:

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1hotvirgowoman

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Well now, I would have to say that it is both of our faults.

Mines: Because I had unprotected sex( if in fact I did).

Theirs: If they didn't tell me that they had an STD to begin with.
 

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1hotvirgowoman said:
Well now, I would have to say that it is both of our faults.

Mines: Because I had unprotected sex( if in fact I did).

Theirs: If they didn't tell me that they had an STD to begin with.
Sister 1HotVirgoWoman ... what if he didn't know ... then would it be your fault alone?

And what if the condom broke ... would it be your fault then?

Do condoms provide a 100% guarantee against the transmission of STD's?

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