YOU ARE THE CHILD. . . I AM THE PARENT! ! !

MUCH THANKS. . .

Destee said:
Brother Larry Dobbins ... Hello and Welcome !!! ... :wave:

Thank you for joining us and sharing!

While i don't agree with all that you've said, i thoroughly enjoyed feeling your love and passion for our young Black Men and Babies. I am blessed to say that i've had the pleasure of raising a Black Man Child as a single parent, and he is doing well. Raising him, i often wondered what would be a man's response in given situations (oftentimes second guessing myself). Your words provide an additional perspective / example, and i'm honored that you've shared them with us.

Please make yourself at home, because you are.

Much Love and Peace.

:heart:

Destee

HELLO MY SISTER & THANKS FOR ACCEPTING ME INTO YOUR ONLINE FAMILY. I PRAY THAT I AM ABLE TO GIVE SOME BIT OF GOOD ADVICE TO MY PEOPLE WHILE TAKING IN USEFUL ADVICE ON TOPICS & SUBJECTS MYSELF. CONGRATS ARE ALSO IN ORDER TO YOU RAISING SUCH A GREAT SON.

I'LL BE AROUND HERE SOMEWHERE (LOL). SO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF MY STRONG SISTER & I'M OUT.

BIG LARRY
 
WOW....

larry dobbins said:
HELLO MY SISTER. I WOULD LIKE TO ADDRESS YOUR REPLY BUT FIRST APPLAUD YOU IN SUCH A GREAT JOB WITH YOUR SON "TEE".

WHIPPINGS ARE VERY RARE FOR MY SON & EACH TIME I WIPPED HIM, HE CRIED & I MEAN CRIED HARD. . . I GUESS THAT IS WHY HE ONLY CAUGHT TWO WHIPPINGS THUSFAR. . . ONE YEARS AGO & JUST RECENTLY. YOU SEE, HAD HE NOT DELIBERATELY DISOBEYED ME & DISRESPECTED OTHERS, I WOULD NOT HAVE WHIPPED HIM. EVERYONE'S ENTITLED TO ERRORS & MISTAKES BUT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO DELIBERATE ACTS THAT YOU ARE FULLY AWARE OF, THAT BECOMES A WHOLE OTHER STORY, ESPECIALLY IF IT IS A "REPEAT" OFFENSE.

SADLY, IN THIS PART OF LOUISIANA, WEARING SAGGY PANTS IS AGAINST THE LAW & PLEASE DON'T GET ME WRONG, YES. . . I AM TOTALLY AGAINST THE SAGGY PANTS LAW!!! BUT MY REASON FOR COMING DOWN SO HARD ON MY BOY WAS BECAUSE HE WAS ALREADY AWARE OF THAT PARTICULAR LAW & CHOSE TO BREAK IT. MY SISTER, I AGREE WITH YOU FULLY BECAUSE WE LIVE IN AMERICA THEREFORE, EACH OF US SHOULD BE AFFORDED OUR CHOICE. . . BUT SADLY, BECAUSE OF A FEW "SOUTHERNERS" BEING OFFENDED, OUR BOYS HAVE TO CONFORM TO A CERTAIN "DRESS CODE" WHILE IN PUBLIC. WHILE I AM PERSONALLY AGAINST THAT SAGGY PANTS LAW, REGRETFULLY, OUR SONS HAVE TO OBEY IT & I HAVE ALWAYS RASIED MY BOY TO FOLLOW & OBEY ALL LAWS. YOU KNOW AS WELL AS I DO WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO HIM I HE CHOOSE NOT TO FOLLOW THE LAW!!!

MY SISTER, YOU HAVE A FINE BOY (OR SHOULD I SAY YOUNG MAN) IN THAT AVATAR PICTURE. LIKE MY SON, I AM SURE THAT HE IS THINKING ABOUT HIS FUTURE IN A POSITIVE MANNER. I CAN SEE THAT YOU ARE A GOOD MOM RAISING A GREAT SON. MY HATS OFF TO YOU MY SISTER FOR A JOB WELL DONE IN ADVANCE. AS A MARRIED MAN & A BLACK MAN, IT IS HARD RAISING MY ONLY SON SO I COULD ONLY IAMGINE HOW IT IS WITH YOUR 14 YEAR OLD SON. BUT JUST KNOW THAT GOD IS THERE FOR ME & HE IS THERE FOR YOU AS WELL.

TAKE CARE MY STRONG SISTER & TELL TEE THAT I SAY WHAT'S UP & LIKE I ALWAYS TELL MY SON:

YOU WERE ALREADY A SUCCESS, IS STILL A SUCCESS & WILL FOREVER REMAIN A SUCCESS! ! ! THEREFORE, ACCEPT NOTHING LESS BECAUSE YOU ARE SIMPLY THE BEST!!!!!!

MAY GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR SON & I'M OUT.

BIG LARRY

WILL TELL TEE... :)

WOW.. THANK YOU FOR THE ENCOURAGEMENT. I SOMETIMES WONDER IF I AM DOING OK, RAISING A MAN I MEAN.

IT'S TOUGH WHEN I DON'T REALLY UNDERSTAND FIRST HAND AND CAN REALLY ONLY TRY TO DO THAT.

HE'S A GREAT SON, AS I AM SURE YOUR SON IS, JUST FROM THE WAY I CAN SEE YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM.

MAN, I WISH EVERY BLACK MAN FELT THIS WAY FOR HIS SON AND/OR DAUGHTER.... AND SELF

IT'S SO AMAZING WHAT A LIL LOVE CAN DO IN A WORLD THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE, AND SEEMS TO BE BECOMING MORE CONFUSING.

YOUR RIGHT HE IS A "YOUNG MAN" NOW.... AND I JUST AIN'T READY TO LET HIM GO.

NO ONE EVER SAID THAT I WAS GONNA HAVE TO DO THAT....

THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS...

AND MUCH RESPECT AND LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY....

THESE LAWS SOMETIMES MAN..... GOT ME SHAKING MY HEAD!
 

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