- Dec 3, 2003
- Operations Manager
Here are some questions. If you are the "other" than what does that say about the person your with? Maybe it says this person can't commit to a monogamous relationship therefore they must fullfill their desires with several different partners. Also if you are the "other" what makes you think that this person wouldn't find "another" if you became the "only"? Also how do you know there isn't "another" already? How can you build trust with someone who is already lying to someone else? These are a few wake up questions that if are answered honestly common sense will yield the answers. Why would anyone settle for being the "other" anyway. Don't you think you deserve exclusivity? In these sort of situations usually the person get hooked by the sex. This is why sex shouldn't be taken lightly. Bottomline is the fews days or weeks of anguish will be much better to cope with than the potential years of drama you will set yourself up for it you don't end this relationship. You don't have to be a Jedi to use common sense...