Black People : WOMENS' INFIDELITY!!!!!

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  1. Kemetstry

    Kemetstry going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Women's relationships today follow
    a very predictable pattern:
    They push men for commitment
    They get what they want
    They lose interest in sex
    They become attracted to someone else
    They start cheating
    They become angry and resentful
    They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
    They blame their partners for their behavior...and eventually, after making themselves and everyone around them miserable for an indefinite, but usually, long period of time, they end their relationships or marriages.



    If you're a male, like most other males, you would probably never suspect that your partner is cheating, not only because of your wife’s or girlfriend’s seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife or girlfriend is a “good girl.” Unfortunately, males are frequently left/divorced by their wives and girlfriends without ever knowing about their wives' and girlfriends' infidelities.

    If you’re a female, like most other females, prior to cheating on your partner you always proclaimed yourself to be "not the type" who would ever cheat. However, also like most other females, after they have cheated, you're shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can't stop cheating.

    Women's relationships and marriages will continue to follow this same pattern unless we develop an accurate understanding of females - particularly in regard to their sexuality. In fact, after researching women's sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous.

    The media has finally begun to acknowledge, albeit to a small degree, the widespread problem of female infidelity. Recently, several books and articles have attempted to explain why women are now cheating as much as men. However, none were successful in their attempt. All of them left out very important pieces to this extremely complicated puzzle. I believe the majority were simply unable to find all of the information necessary to figure out the problem. Although, I'm certain that some were just afraid to disclose certain key pieces of information because the truth, quite frankly, is so contrary to our current beliefs. Unfortunately, without these missing pieces, it's impossible to understand, and to subsequently fix, the real problem occurring in relationships today.


    My story:

    Shortly after my 27th birthday, I began to feel very different. I had been happily married for 4 years and then, suddenly out of nowhere, I began feeling bored and unhappy. In an attempt to figure out what was causing my unhappiness, I looked for answers in books, tried to talk to my Mother and eventually went to see a psychologist. All of the information I received attributed the way I was feeling to my husband, and similar to the majority of women, I began to view my husband as the culprit too.

    http://www.womensinfidelity.com/





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    Well, Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.............OK....................ok................ Where's the males infidelity thread at , Mayne ??? Come on !!! :10500:

    All women are not , I repeat , not this way. If you heep getting the exact same "type" of women , Each and every time. It's how YOU"RE PICKING em.





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    :whip:


    :court:


    :bully:

    Just admit it. All wihmihns is dawgs!

    :em2300:


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    My dearest , Kem..............


    If all women are errrrrrrrrrrrrr let's just say, Errrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..............Untrustworthy like you say...............


    Then go the other way .......................:em2300:

    Relationships are like bank investments. If you invest a lot of time, effort in, & Pay atention to words and actions of the stock. It usually pays off big And the returns are great.

    If you want something quick , fast, and pretty, fyne, and Ready.......................Then hey............. You get exactly what you put in.

    Geez ............... guys !!! :court::court::court:

    Blaming women,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Come on !! What woman force a guy to be with em ???!!!

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    :nono:



    I'm not going the other way. Just dont complain about commitment

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    These days, It's the men that are begging for the commitment.

    Don't get mad ....................................


    because those type of women you speak of...........


    Are the very monsters YOU GUYS created !!!

    What ?? Don't look surprised.....................

    What ?? I know, I know, silly men.:court::court:



    What's the matter ???

    You thought if you creeped all those years. Women was going to continue to just turn their heads FOREVER !!!?? :10500:



    Looks like you're a little peeved because they took YOUR book and rewrote it and are doing far better at it , then ya !!................


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    Don't be all bitter, Mayne !!! Your never too old to change !!!:em2300:


     
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    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Kemetstry
    Women's relationships today follow
    a very predictable pattern:
    They push men for commitment
    They get what they want
    They lose interest in sex
    They become attracted to someone else
    They start cheating
    They become angry and resentful
    They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
    They blame their partners for their behavior...and eventually, after making themselves and everyone around them miserable for an indefinite, but usually, long period of time, they end their relationships or marriages.


    If you're a male, like most other males, you would probably never suspect that your partner is cheating, not only because of your wife’s or girlfriend’s seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife or girlfriend is a “good girl.” Unfortunately, males are frequently left/divorced by their wives and girlfriends without ever knowing about their wives' and girlfriends' infidelities.

    If you’re a female, like most other females, prior to cheating on your partner you always proclaimed yourself to be "not the type" who would ever cheat. However, also like most other females, after they have cheated, you're shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can't stop cheating.

    Women's relationships and marriages will continue to follow this same pattern unless we develop an accurate understanding of females - particularly in regard to their sexuality. In fact, after researching women's sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous.

    The media has finally begun to acknowledge, albeit to a small degree, the widespread problem of female infidelity. Recently, several books and articles have attempted to explain why women are now cheating as much as men. However, none were successful in their attempt. All of them left out very important pieces to this extremely complicated puzzle. I believe the majority were simply unable to find all of the information necessary to figure out the problem. Although, I'm certain that some were just afraid to disclose certain key pieces of information because the truth, quite frankly, is so contrary to our current beliefs. Unfortunately, without these missing pieces, it's impossible to understand, and to subsequently fix, the real problem occurring in relationships today.


    My story:

    Shortly after my 27th birthday, I began to feel very different. I had been happily married for 4 years and then, suddenly out of nowhere, I began feeling bored and unhappy. In an attempt to figure out what was causing my unhappiness, I looked for answers in books, tried to talk to my Mother and eventually went to see a psychologist. All of the information I received attributed the way I was feeling to my husband, and similar to the majority of women, I began to view my husband as the culprit too.





    You mite need to get hormone shots, and let the woman play the role of wife instead of husband.
    I received attributed the way I was feeling to my husband, and similar to the majority of women, I began to view my husband as the culprit too.

    This is no judgement on your fetish, , hey this is th 21 century, and , well do your own thing,

    but for a man to play the role of wife makes it hard on your ego as well as hard to sit down!

    AND WHO THE HELL IS MOOKIE, is he democrat or republican, libertarian? socialist workers?
     
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    Well for me I'm not any of the above listed, but I can tell you that a lot of women are behaving this way because they figured if you can't beat "em" (him), join "em" (him).

    Just being real.............

    But women have the power to stop the behavior, but at the same time, if you want a respectful woman, give it, and for God sake, stop looking for TV images
     
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    Lol, I believe Mookie is referencing to Spike Lee's protagonist of Do The Right Thing...think about the kind of guy he was and the (severely downplayed) role of his baby's mother, Tina played by Rosie Perez
     
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    Infidelity is not gender specific. Usually, if a woman is kept sexually satisfied, and loves her man, she can control her urges. Men on the other hand, can be totally happy at home, but find it difficult to pass up some free na na.
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