Black Women : Women Wished Dads Talked to Them About

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  1. Kemetstry

    Kemetstry going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    SEX!!!!

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    A recent Today Show article said that many females wished their dads had given them pointers about sex and relationships growing up.

    How many of you wished you had an adult male give you the ins and outs early in your dating life?
















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    I wish my Daddy would have talked to me about sex ... and every thing else in the world (and beyond).

    I think that's problee why i have "Daddy Issues" right now ... 'cause i didn't have no Daddy talk'n to me ... :cry:

    aint no tell'n the whole great cost (it can't be measured) ... to a child ... male or female ... not having their Father (and/or Mother) ... talking to them about all things.

    even though i didn't have a Daddy talk'n to me about these things ... the (little bit of) Daddy that i did have ... i will forever love and be grateful for.

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    I think you and Kem should get together... God knows he needs feminine energy and you need male.. so hey! There you have it!!:SuN049:
     
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    I'd not go so far as to say i need male energy ... to replace that which my Father did not give me ... for that is forever an opportunity missed.

    No matter all the love in the world i may receive ... nothing can ever fully satisfy (in my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength) the lost love of my Father.

    But Kemetstry and i could surely try ... he could start by cook'n me a sweet potato pie ... :wink:

    Love You Sister!

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    oh gosh Brother James ... you know i can't take you talk'n to me like that !!! ... :blush: :blush: :blush:

    :callme: ... :lol:

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    I don't think i would want my dad to talk to me about sex...

    But my dad was never a conversationalist when it came down to who I was dating......my mom did that...but my dad's actions spoke plenty, because my father is the epitome of how I would want my husband to be to me, if I was to get married...

    Also, not too long ago, I confronted my dad about how he hardly ever gave me advice about relationships growing up and to this day, even though he had seen me go through some rough ones...He told me he isn't the type to pry into those types of things (it's not his personality)

    The only time I can recall my dad even remotely giving me any advice was when he told me to get rid of a couple of guys I was seeing, which turned out to be creeps...and when he told me not give all my hopes up of thinking me and my daughter's dad were going to last...

    My dad has been a great father to me in other aspects
     
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    My mother gave me chapter and verse about females out here. All the women in my family did.

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