This is how you deal with a violent wife of girlfriend:
call the police!
Try not dealing at all, try breaking up with that woman or getting a divorce. Once a woman puts her hands on you like that and you don't leave her, or restrain her to show her that you don't want to hurt her, but your not going to allow her to disrespect you, she will keep putting her hands on you. If there was respect from the very beginning, she would have not hit the man in the first place.
Just leave the woman for crying out loud...geez
It's to much punanny out there to be setteling for one that may up and hit you any second after the lovin is over.
Astrologer4U