First I would like to start off by saying Peace to all my beautiful black women, Grandmothers, mothers, daughters, granddaughters, sisters. There is nothing more precious in this world than being a beautiful STRONG black queens. But in order for a black woman to be strong, she must have faith in her black man and not dog him down to the core, and make him feel useless. I do not believe a man or a woman can be strong on their own without the other. For it takes two to create more of us (Black/Afrikans). I'm not discounting our strengths as individuals, but as a whole we must stick together as one, throughout our differences, trials and tribulations. We should be uplifting our black men and encouraging them that they will overcome whatever the world puts on their shoulders. And we will stand beside them and carry the burden with them till the finish line. So that they can be the great kings of our nation. Ladies, there are good men. They do exist. They are not mystical creatures or extinct. I know this for a fact and have seen it with my very eyes. For I have a good black man. At the same time I have seen the black men who have been troubled. The troubled can be brought back to good, but it won't work by giving them grief for the wrong that they may have done to you. Because not all men are the same. Just as all women are not the same. If you believe our black man is broke, then gather your tools and fix it. If you can't, do not give up Black woman for there are plenty of good men out there. If you choose not to fix it, then that is on you. Finding a good man should not be easy. It should be a challenge, because challenges always reap benefits and rewards in the end, if the work is completed and done right. The search is what builds and teaches you to help you find what you are looking for. In the end it will pay off. But good men will hide from you if they see you as a predator, searching to destroy who they are. Good black men do not want, need, nor deserve such a woman with negative character in their life. And then you will never find who it is that you are looking for. So women believe and know that the good black man is out there. Whomever he may be.