Brothas. Would you ever marry or date a woman that couldn't cook? I know for me, a woman that can cook is a huge turn-on. Seeing a woman in the kitchen is HOT. I have a friend that swears she wants to get married, but she wants a man that will do all the cooking.hmy: She said there's no need to learn because she will just find a man willing to do it. I told her she'd be single forever then. What if the lady in your life couldn't cook, what would you do? Would you get tired of cooking all the meals or eating out?