Radical Faith said:P.S. With all due respect to Destiny's Child a "Soldier" is highly organized, selfless, dedicated and unified, not anything they describe in their song. I would know because I'm a veteran and one time active soldier.
I feel you, bruh. But, I think they are using the word "soldier" in the slang sense...not the literal sense.
To be honest, I don't think any young person should date exclusively at a young age. Dating 2 or 3 people...just going out--not sex...will give you a better picture of what you like in the opposite sex. I'm not saying to be a playa or a pimp/pimpette. I'm saying take your time to know the opposite sex...what you like...what you don't like...instead of just grabbing the one that fits the norm. In other words, choose a person according to what you like and not what the general consensus is. You will be able to do this when you date or go out with 2 or 3 people at a time. And, the benefit of doing this is that you don't focus on one person...getting all caught up in that one person.
However, if you're the vain type, just chill out...get over self, then date. You must develop a sense of what you want in someone you want to date. Men are different; and so are women.
Miss-no-love, if you take this advice, you'll figure out which guys to choose when dating and which ones to avoid.
Peace, Fam