My younger brother and I were talking tonight, and he said that, "Women don't like jerks, they like men with confidence." He had low self esteem and he acknowledges that now. He also said that,"Men who consider themselves nice guys can be manipulative. I was one of those guys, and I dated women who treated me with disrespect and I felt like they should treat me better because I was a nice guy. Yeah, I put up with the BS but I always expected the best because I did a lot for them to realize this, so in a way I was kind of manipulating them." That was a very honest aspect of what he felt, I had never thought of it like that. What do the men think of this? Don't be scared to comment, we are here to teach each other.