You are the one who isn't considering their positions here, the organization that we are talking about here isn't a dating site or place for them to go meet new men. We are talking about women who have children who are homeless living in a deprave state. Healing isn't what on their mind rather its all about survival for them, which is something you are not taking into consideration. It doesn't matter who give the relief needed to settle down, The healing process can start once they are settled and get their children in a safer environment. Still they will need men around them to fully heal, after all according to your premise they don't trust men, they don't know what good men are like, they will need to be around exemplary men who will show them the difference between good men and bad men. An organization with a combine work of both men and women will be way more efficient than just women only.