This post began with the discussion of domestic abuse that women and their children go through and shelters that they can go to. That is why I was making some of the points that I was, since you continued to engage, I thought that this was a point that you understood. I guess I shouldn't have assumed that. The reason I brought up the trust issue is the fact that if these women have been abused by men, then they may not trust men as much, therefore we should give them a little bit of time to come to grips with that fear and handle it appropriately. Then, we can begin to usher in new situations that will help them fight this fear that they may have, it will help lead them into healthy relationships with men. Step by step what you want can be achieved, but we must handle the emotions and scars of what happened to them first.