Black Relationships : with a fat woman

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  1. bigtown

    bigtown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I met a woman last year who was in my city on business. She was 5'10'' and 150lbs, gorgeous body and beautiful face. She was here for a month and during that time we spent everyday with each other so we got serious. We had a conversation about many things including what was our turn offs. I told her I would not date a fat girl, ever. She told me she understood that, and that she would not date a fat man either. Well she went back to her home town but we still talked everyday on the phone.
    She started to pick up weight, (lots of it) about 130 lbs due to a condition called P.C.O.S. She eventually moved to my city and I was shocked at the weight gain. She assured me that her Dr told her she could lose weight if she took birth control pills watched what she eats and excercises. Well, she's been here for 6 months and has probably gained a little weight because she neither excercises or watches her fat intake. She sometimes talks about her old relationships when she was 140lbs. She even dated the italian guy from nsync and I'm positive they had a sexual relationship. She and I have never had sex, but she often wonders when we will.
    I cant help but feel that she wants me to except something the other guys in her past have never had to. Am I wrong for feeling this way? I'd like to hear from both sexes on this.
     
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    woman should be judged on there personality and there abilities not on how they look

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    bigtown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I understand Queen. Men should also be judged on our personality and abilities and not by their earning potential, yet we rarely are, and for the most part men except that. When the guys reply to this thread please be honest and don't give responses that are politically correct or patronizing to the women here. Thanks guys.
     
  4. Sekhemu

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    I've met some women that were like a size 14 that I thought were pretty, but I know It would be hard for me to get sexually aroused by them because of their size.
     
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    bigtown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Sekhemu my brother, If she got down to 170 lbs (even 180 lbs) I'd be happy as a kid in a candy store because with her body shape and height, size 14 probably wouldn't look bad on her.
     
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    Sekhemu Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    True,

    Size and height does play a role in what some men find attractive.

    To each his own.
     
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    SAMURAI36 Banned MEMBER

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    Peace SEK:

    You think a size 14 is too big? :confused:

    Most women I date or are attracted to, are between 12-16. Anything else is really too small for me.
     
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    most of the times, I guess it depends on how the weight is proportioned and how tall they are.
     
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    What's the shortest size that you'd prefer in a woman?

    For me, it's about 5'6. The taller the better for me though.
     
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    These numbers are misleading.

    I weigh in the upper 130s and I'm 5'6." I can wear clothes sizes 10, 12, and 14 because I have long limbs. My weight is all over and not stuck in one place.

    People always say I'm slim, so a size 14 woman can actually look like a string bean, depending on her body structure and how she carries the weight.
     
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