WIFEY OR DOWN *** BOTTOM? So, when should a sista draw the line? How much hardship has to be endured to earn a brothas "potential"? Brothas want a sistah who can cook without much of an appetite. They want her to have a mean shoe game and be conservative with her money. They want her to be confident and assertive yet submissive. Brothas say they want a freak, but w/o the experience you know the "mileage"?You guys want nurturers, but don't want to feel babied.When do we stop giving? When do we stop waiting before moving in on the next brotha? How much time should be invested? How much money? Is there a limit on what should be scrificed to be with someone?Lastly, nice guys aren't guys who are only nice to you b/c they think you're going to be their girlfriend if they're doing nice things for you.