Why do people make such a fuss over people who can careless about anything they are going through. I mean I have a friend, who keeps chasing a man...or should I say BOY!! Yeah thats the right word...BOY. He uses, abuses, mis-treats, and is full of... well you understand! She keeps begging him to stay..and I wonder why. I had to take her to the hospital the other day...Cuz he blacked her EYE. Now I wanna know why, why is she continuing to let this BOY control her? He uses, abuses, mis-treats, and is full of... well you understand! Why I asked her today...she told me "Cuz he take care of me!" Child plz....is what I wanted to say...But why is all I could say....Why do u continue this foolishness with this foolish kid. He... I dont even have to repeat. I am so done with this whole situation. My sister is hurting herself and WHY I do not know. She will not leave this CHILDISH, ABUSIVE, DESTRUCTIVE,BOY alone. Why is all I can cry Why? My lovely sister, why? Please find a better guy, A real man, one who understands your pain and doesn't wont to cause you any. Why is all I can cry Why? my lovely sister, why? I just don't understand...why you want to deal with a boy instead of a GROWN, STRONG, BLACK MAN!!