Recently I learned that my aunt's husband is in jail for beating her lover to a bloody pulp (those were the words my sister used and lord I hope he didn't kill him). Years ago my godfather shot my godmother's lover then they put him in jail where he died of a heart attack. My uncle's wife's brother shot her other brother over a woman. These are folks who had been married for years. These are men who knew what their wives were doing but had chosen to deny it. Then one day something snapped. You know a person can do something one time to many and the last straw is not necessarily the heaviest straw. Brothas, if a woman is acting up why beat up/kill the man? Why go to jail over smaddy else's stupidity?