Why Go to Jail?

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  1. river

    river Watch Her Flow MEMBER

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    Recently I learned that my aunt's husband is in jail for beating her lover to a bloody pulp (those were the words my sister used and lord I hope he didn't kill him).

    Years ago my godfather shot my godmother's lover then they put him in jail where he died of a heart attack.

    My uncle's wife's brother shot her other brother over a woman.

    These are folks who had been married for years. These are men who knew what their wives were doing but had chosen to deny it. Then one day something snapped. You know a person can do something one time to many and the last straw is not necessarily the heaviest straw.

    Brothas, if a woman is acting up why beat up/kill the man? Why go to jail over smaddy else's stupidity?
     
  2. Ionlyspeaktruth

    Ionlyspeaktruth Banned

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    I aint



    Gonna go back over ANY woman's infedelity or ANY ex. Now, if you try and abuse my wife or kids....:skillet::skillet:
     
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    I've Never

    Been the one 2 get upset about stuff like that. The only way I will react in a violent way is 1. You do that crap around my kids. 2. If I know u and u know this who Im seriously involved wit. You wont get a beat down because u did it, it will be because u disrespected me like that. No man controls what a women will do and vice versa
     
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    Personally i'm not gonna lift a finger to touch a hair on nobody head

    I can fish and i know great ponds where lot's of good health one's linger
    I'm bigger when i walk away and never look back again it's food to da soul

    But when most folkz been together a long time they tend to think it's there's
    and will react to keep it or protect it , I know in life everything is a loan you
    only borrowing and one day must let go / give back / return ....

    it's crazy when it comes to love n' hate rage and kill ...
     
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    Some people can't handle

    The rejection! They feel like a piece of them is missing. The only way for them to express this is through violently lashing out! They think in their sick little way, it is showing the other person, I control this situation and your life. You can not move on with your life. I knew someone like that, and, it was very scary at the time when I did not know any better. But you just do not know what will tick a person off. But, I believe, that there is nothing man can do to me. I do not fear man or death. He would be better off just leaving me the f**** alone!
     
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    Da Street So'ja Banned MEMBER

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    i agree

    we not trying to get locked up, but if you get dissed to your face in your own

    home you HAVE to make a stand, what type stand? of course

    you don't want to get locked up but.........................................

    betrayal is not something people take lightly

    i know i don't
     
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    Inner emotions often can't take it and make a person act out in rage !
    to body harm another is a jail wish ......I've learn to think first act lastly
    and how to accept rejection / words /hurt n' pain / even betrayal or dirty
    deed of another .......It only makes me rise to be better not bitter.
     
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    :yesno:



    You wont know until you're there. Trust me, there are sisters in jail for the same reasons. That's why people tell others not to play with folx emotions like that. It can be deadly.




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  9. Da Street So'ja

    Da Street So'ja Banned MEMBER

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    yea

    :em3000:what you said!
     
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    sad but true it's like a deadly ray that takes over , I've seen too many times the man
    was the victim to a beat down of a woman who emotions / feelings and heart was played
    with as well her heart she snap))))) O.U.T !!! used deadly force at all cost and earn
    herself 25 to life
     
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