Black Relationships : Why Do Some Black Women

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dunwiddat

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.....seem to think that if they marry a white man all will be well. I am not against inter racial marriage since each person has the freedom to do what they want......and love can be found among any ethnic group.

Several years ago I was in a conversation with a friend of mine. The topic of inter racial marriage came up. She said...I would love to be married to a white man....I am a black woman and my husband was a black man and he divorced me...If I marry again I want to be married to an Italian man...they are very family oriented....black men are family-oriented too.....just because her black husband divorced her does not giver her justification to paint all black men with a dirty brush.

My ex was a black man and he divorced me too, but if I ever get married again I want to be married to a black man..only this time I would rather a bald and I mean real bald..not a streak of hair on his head black man....Lol.:lol:

A work colleague of mine told me recently she is not interested in black men she wants to be married to a white man. I told her I am not interested in any... She felt I was racist to say that. I told her if a white man could not marry my ancestors in 1812 why should one want to marry me in 2012.

I am not racist...this is just my preference...I prefer to have someone who looks like me lying in bed next to me and my children looking like both of us. I made this comment on a predominantly white networking site and the white folks were not too pleased. To me there is nothing like a black man and a woman lying in bed together...and I aint apologising for saying so.:(
 

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Same reason that some Black women think that if they look White 'all will be well' or let's say 'things would be better.' That's just how we're programmed. Next time you're around a Brother or Sister, ask to see their motherboard. If you're close with them, they'll show you.
 

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.....seem to think that if they marry a white man all will be well. I am not against inter racial marriage since each person has the freedom to do what they want......and love can be found among any ethnic group.
What's the problem then, if you think that love can be found in any ethnic group?



A work colleague of mine told me recently she is not interested in black men she wants to be married to a white man. I told her I am not interested in any... She felt I was racist to say that. I told her if a white man could not marry my ancestors in 1812 why should one want to marry me in 2012.
Your friend obviously hates her people in her heart.


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am not racist...this is just my preference...I prefer to have someone who looks like me lying in bed next to me and my children looking like both of us. I made this comment on a predominantly white networking site and the white folks were not too pleased. To me there is nothing like a black man and a woman lying in bed together...and I aint apologising for saying so.:(
Why should you apologize for preferring to marry within your own race? No other nations on earth does this but Negroes, because you were condition to feel that way. There is nothing to be ashamed or apologize about, it's bad whenever we go marry outside of our race. One more thing what were you doing in predominantly white website in the first place?
 

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What's the problem then, if you think that love can be found in any ethnic group?




Your friend obviously hates her people in her heart.


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Why should you apologize for preferring to marry within your own race? No other nations on earth does this but Negroes, because you were condition to feel that way. There is nothing to be ashamed or apologize about, it's bad whenever we go marry outside of our race. One more thing what were you doing in predominantly white website in the first place?

Excuse me...Are you the Black Taliban? I go where I want...:(
 

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.....seem to think that if they marry a white man all will be well. I am not against inter racial marriage since each person has the freedom to do what they want......and love can be found among any ethnic group.

Several years ago I was in a conversation with a friend of mine. The topic of inter racial marriage came up. She said...I would love to be married to a white man....I am a black woman and my husband was a black man and he divorced me...If I marry again I want to be married to an Italian man...they are very family oriented....black men are family-oriented too.....just because her black husband divorced her does not giver her justification to paint all black men with a dirty brush.

My ex was a black man and he divorced me too, but if I ever get married again I want to be married to a black man..only this time I would rather a bald and I mean real bald..not a streak of hair on his head black man....Lol.:lol:

A work colleague of mine told me recently she is not interested in black men she wants to be married to a white man. I told her I am not interested in any... She felt I was racist to say that. I told her if a white man could not marry my ancestors in 1812 why should one want to marry me in 2012.

I am not racist...this is just my preference...I prefer to have someone who looks like me lying in bed next to me and my children looking like both of us. I made this comment on a predominantly white networking site and the white folks were not too pleased. To me there is nothing like a black man and a woman lying in bed together...and I aint apologising for saying so.:(
I agree with the adage from Dr. J H Clarke, "You cannot raise an African, between the legs of a European". I also believe you can love anybody you want to. However speaking from a social/political perspective that dictates how we live and die it would not make sense for me personally love anybody who aids, willingly or unwittingly in the destruction of my race. It is anti-African and Anti-life, those are just facts. Whether one wants to accept that or not is up to them. White people, even the most sincere of them aid in our destruction every single day just by their (unwitting) participation in a system that puts European people above all others. I double triple dare any black person dating a white/man/woman (who most likely think they live in a post racial society) to be black for 1 week and try to do the things that they normally do or better yet abandon their participation in the shytstem. I bet all the gold in the world that they wont do it.
 
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