Black Relationships : Why Do Some Black Women

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  1. dunwiddat

    dunwiddat Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    .....seem to think that if they marry a white man all will be well. I am not against inter racial marriage since each person has the freedom to do what they want......and love can be found among any ethnic group.

    Several years ago I was in a conversation with a friend of mine. The topic of inter racial marriage came up. She said...I would love to be married to a white man....I am a black woman and my husband was a black man and he divorced me...If I marry again I want to be married to an Italian man...they are very family oriented....black men are family-oriented too.....just because her black husband divorced her does not giver her justification to paint all black men with a dirty brush.

    My ex was a black man and he divorced me too, but if I ever get married again I want to be married to a black man..only this time I would rather a bald and I mean real bald..not a streak of hair on his head black man....Lol.:lol:

    A work colleague of mine told me recently she is not interested in black men she wants to be married to a white man. I told her I am not interested in any... She felt I was racist to say that. I told her if a white man could not marry my ancestors in 1812 why should one want to marry me in 2012.

    I am not racist...this is just my preference...I prefer to have someone who looks like me lying in bed next to me and my children looking like both of us. I made this comment on a predominantly white networking site and the white folks were not too pleased. To me there is nothing like a black man and a woman lying in bed together...and I aint apologising for saying so.:(
     
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    Same reason that some Black women think that if they look White 'all will be well' or let's say 'things would be better.' That's just how we're programmed. Next time you're around a Brother or Sister, ask to see their motherboard. If you're close with them, they'll show you.
     
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    What's the problem then, if you think that love can be found in any ethnic group?



    Your friend obviously hates her people in her heart.


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    Why should you apologize for preferring to marry within your own race? No other nations on earth does this but Negroes, because you were condition to feel that way. There is nothing to be ashamed or apologize about, it's bad whenever we go marry outside of our race. One more thing what were you doing in predominantly white website in the first place?
     
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    Excuse me...Are you the Black Taliban? I go where I want...:(
     
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    I agree with the adage from Dr. J H Clarke, "You cannot raise an African, between the legs of a European". I also believe you can love anybody you want to. However speaking from a social/political perspective that dictates how we live and die it would not make sense for me personally love anybody who aids, willingly or unwittingly in the destruction of my race. It is anti-African and Anti-life, those are just facts. Whether one wants to accept that or not is up to them. White people, even the most sincere of them aid in our destruction every single day just by their (unwitting) participation in a system that puts European people above all others. I double triple dare any black person dating a white/man/woman (who most likely think they live in a post racial society) to be black for 1 week and try to do the things that they normally do or better yet abandon their participation in the shytstem. I bet all the gold in the world that they wont do it.
     
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    peace

    There was a show on years ago, that did this experiment where a white boy wanted to see what it was like to be black for a week. They had make up artist's come in and really make him up to look black. He was finally ready to step out into the world as a 'black man'.

    he went on a job interview, then to a couple of stores and got followed around. He went to a couple of other places, but i forgot exactly what those places were. But, basically after about 3 or 4 hours he was in complete tears and begging for them to remove the make up from his face and body because he didn't have the strength to endure what black people go thru all day every day.

    He only lasted 3 or 4 hours and totally broke down!!

    Eddie murphy did the same thing years ago where they made him up to be white and he went in and out of stores with no problem or anyone following him and even took/stole a few things, but brought them back and said "oops, i must have forgot to pay for these" and the security guard directed him to the nearest register....:confused:
     
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    they had a party on the bus as soon as the last black person got off...lol
    broke out the champagne and ish....

    one love
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    I saw the Eddie Murphy thing I have that dvd too funny but so true. I loved it at the end where he said " I have plenty of friends and plenty of make up so watch out, that hot white chick or groovey white man might just be black" LOL I would love to see the white man who did this.
     
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    I wish i could remember what show it was on, but this white boy's face was covered in tears when he came out of some building in a suit, almost callapsing from begging them to take the make up off of him. he was in tears apologizing for everything bad he had ever thought of black people before that experience.
     
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    I found it it was Oprah wish I could see the video. http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/Race-on-The-Oprah-Show-A-25-Year-Look-Back/5
     
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