.....seem to think that if they marry a white man all will be well. I am not against inter racial marriage since each person has the freedom to do what they want......and love can be found among any ethnic group. Several years ago I was in a conversation with a friend of mine. The topic of inter racial marriage came up. She said...I would love to be married to a white man....I am a black woman and my husband was a black man and he divorced me...If I marry again I want to be married to an Italian man...they are very family oriented....black men are family-oriented too.....just because her black husband divorced her does not giver her justification to paint all black men with a dirty brush. My ex was a black man and he divorced me too, but if I ever get married again I want to be married to a black man..only this time I would rather a bald and I mean real bald..not a streak of hair on his head black man....Lol. A work colleague of mine told me recently she is not interested in black men she wants to be married to a white man. I told her I am not interested in any... She felt I was racist to say that. I told her if a white man could not marry my ancestors in 1812 why should one want to marry me in 2012. I am not racist...this is just my preference...I prefer to have someone who looks like me lying in bed next to me and my children looking like both of us. I made this comment on a predominantly white networking site and the white folks were not too pleased. To me there is nothing like a black man and a woman lying in bed together...and I aint apologising for saying so.