Why is there such a rush, a need, etc. for folks to get married anyway? Hell, many folks are just content with dating, shacking, etc. As I see it, words in a marriage become "we" there is no "I" anymore, etc. Which gender pushes for marriage quicker these days, "men or women?" Other than for long term benefit, etc. Marriage ought be put off until one is absolutely sure that it's what they want, etc. As we known marriage creates families, several families if you tell it like it is, etc. While divorce rates are still soaring, etc. Most women that I meet these days have been married, some several times, etc. Hell, I often wondered what happened to all that love they had for each other, etc. In my view, apparently somebody just didn't do their homework, etc. Often I hear, "he or she. wasn't like that when I met him", etc. As I see it, just enjoy life, when that person and or time comes, you'll really know it, etc. But proceed slowly, etc.