Black Relationships : Why Arent We Marrying?

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  1. Kemetstry

    Kemetstry going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    i'll marry you kem baby.....:slobber:
     
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    So, you've finally come out of the closet?
     
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    well homie sounds disparate......
     
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    All the men are gay, locked up, and dating white women.
    All the women's standards are too high, they are too stuck up, too angry, too hostile, too ghetto.


    Or so that's what I heard... :10500:
     
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    ALL? That's kind of an overstatement...but not by much...

    But I can see this thread is going to be another "battle of the sexes"...
     
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    Knowledge Seed Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    True...
     
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    :1on1: bring it on......
     
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    Well, I can attest to the fact that married black folks are a minority within a minority. And I write about this and a range of related issues on my blog, Black Married Momma: The Anti-Statistic.

    Many of today's adults have never seen a healthy, functioning marriage, so they have no representative example or template of how commitment really works and looks for the long haul.

    Many of today's men and women, too, have grown up as victims of divorce or the unintended offspring of non-commital liasions, from one-night stands to dating relationships. They've never known their mothers and fathers to be husbands and wives, merely "baby mommas" and "baby daddies."

    Many black girls turned women are raised to go it alone, to be autonomous, strong, independent, only for these warnings and suggestions to become a self-fulfilling prophecy - they may be strong and educated, but they are also alone. You can't holler about not needing a man and expect a good one to gravitate toward you!

    Anyway, I could go on. I'll be checking on how this thread goes!
     
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    Well I can speak for myself and say that I have seen a healthy marriage that works...My Parents (30-some years)...They are the only couple in my immediate family that has still been together

    Marriage isn't for every...I'm not even sure it's for me...

    Marriage is not a requirement

    I don't need to get married to feel fulfilled...Now I know some women (and men) who think that they need to be married NOW or their life is ruined
     
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