Black Relationships : Why are there so many single parent households in black communities?

Kemetstry said:
If you dont know that being lynched is worse, I cant help you. Being lynched is akin to crucifixtion. You really dont wanna go there, k?

No being nice doesnt necessarily equate. That is why chosing well is so important. But yall know what a nice guy is.


So I guess all those strange fruit hanging from those trees in dresses were men? These days most BM are systematicaly screwed in the employment arena, longer than usual jail sentences, and subtly removed from the home. How do they screw the women?

1. They will use tactics to remove her kids from her through the state.

2. Is more than often left without a mate, to go on welfare*, a vicious cycle.

3. The media tortures her through a silly beauty standard.

4. Made to defend herself against WM, WW, and sometimes BM.

5. All too often must witness her children go through some stupid inferiorization process through the school system.


I will not sit here all night and debate on who's oppressed more harshly, which is a surefire way to prove how tight the noose still is on our necks, regardless the "we are all the same color underneath" propaganda. I won't even begin to testify my life personal life experiences, and how white supremacy shaped my view of the world.:spinstar:
 
Kemestry.....

"Why would she go after a boy consistantly rather than a man?"

Have you dated men in your lifetime? Why is it even in a man to step to a Sister knowing his ish ain't together. It's called supply and demand. For many Sisters it tends to be demand, and then supply. We get what's available. If not, we are demanding, complainers, and have expectations that are too high. :witch:
 
Kemetstry said:
No, because he still has to file tax forms and that's usually what they go by

No you didnt answer it

I asked why so many sisters go for Mookie. Not you in particular

And he is a Mookie

Ok maybe my definition of mookie and your definition of mookie is different!
And fyi I don't think he files!
He was a college grad,intelligent,extremely funny,great stepper,had his own place,nice job,clean,handsome,we took carriage rides,skating,casino road trips,made love by the missippi river,picnics outside and the living room,ice skating,boat riding,expensive foreign restaurants,walks dowtown at night,he wrote me poetry, then the drinking started,then the abuse,then the cheating and more abuse and goodbye!That aint mookie! Mookie will pass you a blunt and a forty ounce and tell you to put on some bruce lee video, turn it on low,then put who's is this on by rkelly and turn you around to missionary position!:lol:
now to answer your initial question!
Maybe it's that thugged out sex,the realness,the game,the way they flaunt their manhood,the roughneck nice girl theme, well that was me back when.
 
spicybrown said:
So I guess all those strange fruit hanging from those trees in dresses were men? These days most BM are systematicaly screwed in the employment arena, longer than usual jail sentences, and subtly removed from the home. How do they screw the women?

1. They will use tactics to remove her kids from her through the state.

2. Is more than often left without a mate, to go on welfare*, a vicious cycle.

3. The media tortures her through a silly beauty standard.

4. Made to defend herself against WM, WW, and sometimes BM.

5. All too often must witness her children go through some stupid inferiorization process through the school system.


I will not sit here all night and debate on who's oppressed more harshly, which is a surefire way to prove how tight the noose still is on our necks, regardless the "we are all the same color underneath" propaganda. I won't even begin to testify my life personal life experiences, and how white supremacy shaped my view of the world.:spinstar:


Uh, no, they arent men. Yet for a while, sisters were going after these strange fruit as well. Just like Stella getting her groove back is still trying to do. ( pathetic skank *smh* ) Many males are setting themselves up to catch a case. Cosby is right about parent not doing their job.

None of this would be an issue if mothers didnt allow tv and bet to raise their kids. None of this would happen if mothers didnt allow media to dictate to them. You're suppose to have a mind, use it!

There is no debate. You have answered many of my issues. Being killed does not compare to anything sisters may go thru
 
Kemetstry said:
Uh, no, they arent men. Yet for a while, sisters were going after these strange fruit as well. Just like Stella getting her groove back is still trying to do. ( pathetic skank *smh* ) Many males are setting themselves up to catch a case. Cosby is right about parent not doing their job.

None of this would be an issue if mothers didnt allow tv and bet to raise their kids. None of this would happen if mothers didnt allow media to dictate to them. You're suppose to have a mind, use it!

There is no debate. You have answered many of my issues. Being killed does not compare to anything sisters may go thru

Yes indeed!
 

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