Someone asked the question and I ventured to offer a response as follows.
Perception is reality. If we perceive ourselves to be strong we will be strong. If we perceive ourselves to be weak we will be weak.
We live in a society that has stereotyped the quote unquote strong Black woman and equated her with the quote unquote angry Black woman. If we do not overstand what strength is we might allow this stereotype to turn our strength into a negative trait and falsely imagine that true spiritual growth requires that we be weak.
While it is true that we must love our Creator and overstand that we are created beings, but we must also dispel the myth that we can somehow take glory away from the Creator by being too strong, or too beautiful, or too intelligent, or too happy, etc. If I shown as brightly as a thousand suns at midday on the summer solstice I could not take the slightest glory away from the One who gave light to all the suns of the universe.
So what makes many women weak is the belief that weakness is our lot and proper demeanor as woman. Society rewards the weak woman (will someone come and rescue a damsel in this dress?) and frowns on the strong woman (she's trying to wear the pants around the house. well, somebody has to wear them.).
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"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." The above speech by Nelson Mandela was originally written by Marianne Williamson
Perception is reality. If we perceive ourselves to be strong we will be strong. If we perceive ourselves to be weak we will be weak.
We live in a society that has stereotyped the quote unquote strong Black woman and equated her with the quote unquote angry Black woman. If we do not overstand what strength is we might allow this stereotype to turn our strength into a negative trait and falsely imagine that true spiritual growth requires that we be weak.
While it is true that we must love our Creator and overstand that we are created beings, but we must also dispel the myth that we can somehow take glory away from the Creator by being too strong, or too beautiful, or too intelligent, or too happy, etc. If I shown as brightly as a thousand suns at midday on the summer solstice I could not take the slightest glory away from the One who gave light to all the suns of the universe.
So what makes many women weak is the belief that weakness is our lot and proper demeanor as woman. Society rewards the weak woman (will someone come and rescue a damsel in this dress?) and frowns on the strong woman (she's trying to wear the pants around the house. well, somebody has to wear them.).
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"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." The above speech by Nelson Mandela was originally written by Marianne Williamson