Black Relationships : Why are men less likely to forgive cheating than women?

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  1. Kemetstry

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    uhhhh ... okay ... thank you Kem ... :imout:

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    *sigh* Why do you think Adam really ate that apple?




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    It's too much of a stretch - going from there to here.

    I can't do it.

    I appreciate you sharing the thought and i'm sure it has something to do with something.

    But ... i can't ... not tonight ... i have a headache ... :lol:

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    Hey Kemetstry ... are you up ... feel like talking?

    I am gonna set up our show if you feel like it?

    Let me know.

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    Listen to the words of the song, When A Man Loves a Woman

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    That's the answer!

    Most, not all men are less forgiving and less willing to overlook these types of discretions


     
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    Because when a guy cheats on a woman, she thinks, "I love that fool. He probably was seduced by her! Or he just had a moment of weakness! It won't happen again, I know!"

    But when a woman cheats, guys are thinking, "Did she really just let another dude plant his flag where I already conquered? Woman with no morals! Probably went out there seducing all kinds of dudes! Who knows how many!"

    In all, I think it goes to the ole "men will be men, boys will be boys". In that, it's expected for men to look for sex, even when in a relationship, so it can be forgiven when he transgresses in such a manner. But for a woman to do such a thing simply makes her immoral and out of control, so it just can't be forgiven. In society's eyes, that is.
     
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