Black Relationships : Why are men less likely to forgive cheating than women?

Kemetstry

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Thank you.

Please tell us more.

How are you involved emotionally ... deeper ... without giving the same significance to sex?

Can you give some examples of this emotionally deep involvement?

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*sigh* Why do you think Adam really ate that apple?.


It's too much of a stretch - going from there to here.

I can't do it.

I appreciate you sharing the thought and i'm sure it has something to do with something.

But ... i can't ... not tonight ... i have a headache ... :lol:

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Hey Kemetstry ... are you up ... feel like talking?

I am gonna set up our show if you feel like it?

Let me know.

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Kemetstry

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It's too much of a stretch - going from there to here.

I can't do it.

I appreciate you sharing the thought and i'm sure it has something to do with something.

But ... i can't ... not tonight ... i have a headache ... :lol:

:heart:

Destee


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.o0( You always have a headache )





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Fine1952

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That's the answer!

Most, not all men are less forgiving and less willing to overlook these types of discretions


Peace and Blessings Family,

It seems like women are more likely to forgive cheating in a relationship than men are.

I don't have any data to support this, but looking across the landscape, it seems women are more forgiving, willing to overlook the indiscretion to keep the relationship active while men will quit if the woman were to do the same thing to them.

What's up with that?

Why aren't men equally as forgiving as women in like situations?

Or ... do you think men are equally as forgiving when it comes to their partner cheating?

Thanks in advance.

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Angela22

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Because when a guy cheats on a woman, she thinks, "I love that fool. He probably was seduced by her! Or he just had a moment of weakness! It won't happen again, I know!"

But when a woman cheats, guys are thinking, "Did she really just let another dude plant his flag where I already conquered? Woman with no morals! Probably went out there seducing all kinds of dudes! Who knows how many!"

In all, I think it goes to the ole "men will be men, boys will be boys". In that, it's expected for men to look for sex, even when in a relationship, so it can be forgiven when he transgresses in such a manner. But for a woman to do such a thing simply makes her immoral and out of control, so it just can't be forgiven. In society's eyes, that is.
 

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