The past three months, I have been stuck in an unhealthy, obsessive and verbally abusive relationship. You see we started out with a homey lover friend deal. Sex only. People say Word? An 18 year old? Too young, but true. I wanted to diminsh the feelings I had for a previous guy who I had a one night stand with. You see the previous guy had a girlfriend I didn't know about, so I was hurt. This guy I found out later had a girlfriend, but I didn't care. I didn't care until he started having feelings for me, and then I started having the same. Well maybe the same. He broke up with his girlfriend and we started dating. Later, the friend that hooked us up was the one he cheated on me with. Drama, right? The day we broke up he went back to his girlfriend. I wanted to be friends with him and he wanted to be friends with me (after a grieving period) but I still have feelings for him (even though he treats me badly by calling me names, seeing my whereabouts, and stalking me at work) and he still has a girlfriend. Now I just want to get over him. I don't know how, so I need a little help in this department. I want to be with him in a way because I feel like I love him even though he can be such a ***** sometimes, but I can't when he has a girlfriend and now she wants to fight me. Could y'all help me out?