First of all let me say that I absolutely have nothing against bm and ww dating/marrying because it is their right to do so if they choose and more and more black men seem to be jumping the fence to ww everyday and leaving some sisters feeling rejected and hurt. Sisters if you choose to be hurt over bm/ww and go around uttering that ww are stealing all black men, well then that is your problem because no one is steal bm, they are going willingly because they buy into the white media's image of what beauty is suppose to be which is the artifical blue eyed/blonde barbi. It is time that we as intelligent beautiful black women take stock of our lives and decide what is right or best for us today and stop trying to follow old traditions that tell us that it is up to bw to single handledly preserve the black community(while bm get to play around of f#&k up anyway he likes) or that because we are black women that the men in our lives must be black ones. What limiting nonsense! I have always been attracted to white men and have dated them exclusively for years and I have never been happier. They don't have all the anger and extra emotional baggage that most black men have. White men also on the average seek higher education and have a way better opportunities for make bling, bling than black men, not to mention they will do almost anything to please their women in bed and I do mean orally also. The size is really up the person and has nothing to do with race because my current white boyfriend is huge and knows exactly how to please me. So if you are worried that all the good black men are going to ww, I and many like me say just let them go and expand your options (just like black men are do and have been doing for a while now to dating other races) because there are a buffet of handsome men out here who most black men couldn't top in most areas anyway.