Black Relationships : Which is worst of these two scenario

[frankster]

Below I have laid out two scenarios which would you consider a worst insult?

First scenario:
Two Couples are friends....none are Married
Couple 1 consist of A & B
Couple Two Consist of C & D
B & D are related
Couple 1 got married first and invited D but not C...D attended the Ceremony.

Should C be Upset?
If so with whom with Couple 1? Or D?
Is there room for forgiveness?


Second Scenario:
Couple C & D gets Married
A & B were invited and attended.

C's Relative(E) steals D's Drivers License and runs up points and traffic tickets to the tune of $3500
Should C bear any responsibility for E"s behavior?
Is there room for forgiveness?


How long should any party bear a Grudge?

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Above I have laid out two scenarios which would you consider a worst insult?