I've found that to be TRUE......primarily because most folks seem to be FOCUSED ON WHAT OTHER'S ARE DOING OR NOT DOING......
as opposed to looking at SELF
I will say this Brother Ankhur.....I OVERSTAND your Frustration and I share it. I work on SELF attempting to DO the best I can to not add to the foray by BE~ing responsible for the part I am playing in the mess we in.....It DOES become problematic when I work to CLEAN MY HOUSE and others continue to DUMP ISH back in as fast as I clean it up...the ish and hits just keep coming making it extremely difficult to maintain FOCUS ON SELF....cause now I'm ready to pull out the machete and start chopping the hands doing the dumping and the feet bringing them to my door
So what we gonna do:?:
I just had a long conversation this a.m. with an Elder Sister friend and "mentor" who happens to be of the Christian faith shystem who suggest I not FOCUS on those "evil-doers" and leave them to "God". My first step she suggest is for me to CUT FAMILY LOSE cause they adults and draining my energy and resources. I have not been able to DO that just yet tho.
M.E.