I find it infuriating when I'm out and a white person asks to touch my hair. The other day I was out with a friend of mine and her friends, which are white were like, "You have such cool hair, it's so pretty...can I touch it?" I hadn't even given them permission, I just smiled and this guy stuck his hand in my hair and began patting it almost like a dog. I just grinned, but inside I wanted to kick him in his nut sack. This has happened more then on one occasion. Either they ask to touch it or they go right ahead and touch it anyways. Has anyone else experience this? And how did you feel? And how did you handle it?