Black Relationships : when is it to soon to tell a woman how u feel?

Hi bro :wave:

a good qustion...


welll.....

first about the creep thing...
I think when you are as a woman God fearing and not Human fearing...
that it makes a difference...of how the woman is taking it....
For some woman it can change their impression about you for some not..
Some appriciate it youre honesty......


When two people like eachother and feel the same energie at the same time..
it most of the time ....is no problem ....it goes together with blushing and flirting when they say these things to eachother....

let me give you some examples.....


1)I know guys who had expressed their emotions emidiatly...
you know how wonderfull you are and that you where the world...


2)I know some guys who had expressed their emotions after a while....
3)and i know some guys who epressed their emotions after years.....


In some of the casses of the 3 examples it all turned out good ....
there was a good vibe they got together....

In some of the casses for example <example1)
te guy was to caught up in the moment the vibe...
and maybe by her looks pressance or the way the mood and the sky was...
and after he got to know her and i mean realy know her......
those complements dissapeared and where never said again after it...

thats why some woman can think .....by a guy saying all these things to her on or after a first date ......"'yeah right.....you dont even know me......"'



I also know that in some casses for exampe , example2/3
The guy regred that he didnt expressed and got blamed for thr fact that he didnt expressed it to her....and made her wonder and mourn how he feels about her....


I personaly think that in these times....
actions speek louder than words..
for woman...(i believe also for man.... however sumthimes i still have the feeling that they perver that a woman is not agressif and that she waits in her little castle and comes :horse: for her and screams "'thelma come out now youre man is here..........well i hope you like me....i hope :number1: ...
but if there is no match......i,m out :run: of here... :wchair: ..up to another castle)


I think its good for people ....
to express their emotions....
in honesty..
i see it alot in childeren daily...

But some advise i would give to some man....
is...

you can also.....leave the words somethimes and just express it in...
you know just looking at her smiling....sending those thoughts out.....
in energie.....

so that youre gonna have that old man who is walking by or sitting next on table of you two.....saying ""now you like that lady dont ya......"'
"'good luck my son""



For some man i would like to give the advise to speak more...
and from the heart and before you speak ....
make shure you know what you feel......
and that it is real....

so for some guys .....speak more..
you know dont look only .....

(suddenly this song pups up in my mind its a song of betty wright...."'you can see for looking""



But i think most inportent....
is that we express....
And how its best you will feel it when you let yourself be guided by the most high .....I,m sorry but i had to mention him cause i know he always helps you even trough these things....

but express cause....

you can never blame ...the fact that there is no match ...
i mean that there is no real love between two people who are just starting to know eachother.......

but it can always be painfull to know that you never expressed or showed you how you feel...
and this counts for other relationships to...

Just think about that group Mike and the Macanics..with that song ""in the living years""




brother...
i did my best to give you some advise i hope i could help you a little...(but know our father will give you the best guidance)
as soon i know more i will come here and edit more to it.....


so for now good luck and Alpha and Omega guidance......



just see me as a little sis doing my best to encouriage you s :kick: ""you can do it"' youre going to be alright..







Lovelibertylady:heart:
 

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