I've never been married. But one day I would like to fall in love and get married. However, I'm very skeptical about it. Being that I know more people who have divorced then remained married. My daughter's friend's parents are getting divorced because from my understanding the husband is very controlling and mean. They have 4 kids together, one of which is between the two, and the other three are hers. He is opposed to helping out with the three that are hers, because he doesn't feel it's his responsibility. Mind you, the father of the 3 kids are involved and does help out. Anyways, he's mean to the kids as well. She went to my parent's business and got a job so that she could provide for her other kids, but he didn't want her to work either. So he served her with divorce papers. IMO, I feel like he knew what he was coming into when he married her...He knew that she had three kids. Anyways, with that being said...when is divorce necessary? When you are simply unhappy with your spouse? When there is infidelity? When there isn't any intimacy? Financial problems?