A serious topic. I am posting this because my "play" cousin parents have this issue. Dad, worked for years, as did moms. they own 2 properties, one of which is a rental prop. He seemingly has to ask his wife to spend a damm dime. His van just broke down and he like has to consult her before taking it to the shop. I never hear their $ referred to as "our" $! Now, this is not the only case like this that I have come across. Me? I dont get it. While I have been a person reluctant to accept anything from folk, that does not include my mate or S.O. Am I wrong for thinking that this is a problem? Just what is going on?