Black Relationships : What's the Big Deal?

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  1. Bootzey

    Bootzey Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Family,

    Why is it we, Original, people have such a problem admitting that we have healthy and vibrant sex lives? Why the stigma? The older I get the more comfortable and less ashamed I become regarding my proclivities. If only I could have been this uninhibited when I was in my 20's. But I find that most of the Original people I have Built with or shared social Equality with seem to have issues. What is the big deal? Everyone does it. And if you're not that is more of a problem. Your not shamed to give birth but your ashamed of the action that brought you to it. Makes no sense to me. If you are a healthy adult making your own choices I see no problems in whatever you choose to do as long as its with another adult.

    How do y'all see it?

    Peace
     
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    Keita Kenyatta going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    By right it shouldn't be a big deal. The problem is with the times that we live in. People are writing books, doing online activities and going on so called real t.v. and ain't got no problem writing about and speaking about your business as if it's alright when we may have thought it was supposed to be intimate or private....they just be smearing your stuff all across the pavement like it's ok. But you're right in your thought process.
     
  3. Bootzey

    Bootzey Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Folks can only do what you let them do. If someone is putting another on blast, there will be evidence of that before you get started.
     
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    Peace,

    One would need to know what a vibrant and healthy sex life is before they could accurately speak on it. A majority of the people I've interacted with throughout my life are clueless on this and some of them even know it.

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  5. Shikamaru

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    Judgmentalness.
    Unbalanced sexual energy within one's self.
    Failure to integrate "the Other" within one's psyche.
    One not being content within them self.
     
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    We were created to procreate. You can't do that without sex. Let me say without a doubt, it gets better with age, and with the right person its DYNAMITE. Its also very good for continued good health of mind and body. We just need to learn to control our own destiny. So Bootzey...Im carrying on as long as there's fire in my loins. I know im speaking to the pulpit, all masters of the act are recognized. (gotta take your word for it)..:lol:
     
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    Mikha'el Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    i know i wont be havign a problem with it :D
     
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