Black Relationships : Whats most important ?

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  1. unique

    unique Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    What's most important to you in a woman ? Intelligence, Confidence, Overall good attitude, Inner Beauty, Great Body, Great Sex, Great Culinary Skills, Goal-Oriented, Independent, Spiritual, Honest, Trustworthy.

    What are the single men 25 and up looking for in a mate ?
     
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    Good question

    Sister know this. There are two things that are most important to a man in a lasting relationship there are compatibility and support. If men and woman are compatible they will compliment eachother. A complimentary relationship has very few conflicts and are generally peaceful. If men and women support eachother they will take care of eachother and satisfy eachother needs and desires. This two qualities make for a happy relationship. Happiness means good sex, good cooking, good times and a good future. Remember that.


    Peace


    Radical Faith
     
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    money............. :slobber:
     
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    let me say , a good man look at all goals stated above all that falls under
    inner beauty what you said so when a man go deep into her inner beauty
    he seeks out her loyality , respect to self and him , attitude , her sexual stance
    her goals , self esteem , her smile , emotions see it's a package deal a MAN
    look for in a woman well let me speak for me at least i do .........
     
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    I think all of those qualities are important. I wouldn't want to leave any out. Good looks and nice body are pretty important because attraction has to be there.

    One of the most important qualities though is sincerity. If a woman is sincere with whatever she does (sex, cooking, goals, honesty, trust) then that says a lot. She's actually trying and putting forth effort...something most women don't do. I think I'd have to put that at the top of my list. I respect a woman that shows appreciation and has a great attitude towards the relationship.
     
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    I agree. sincerity is very important to me. I know a lot of single brothas these days that are having a very difficult time finding that in women.
     
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    Yeah Sekhemu, it is very hard, I can second that. That's one of the hardest things for me to find too. It does go a long way because even if she makes nasty food, at least she thought enough about you to actually attempt to cook something for you. Or if she doesn't make much money but she's trying to better herself through further education or working a little over-time...you can't fault her if you have to take up the rest of the slack until she gets on her feet. Sincerity evens out most short-comings IMO.
     
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    Unique

    The things most important to me are physical attractiveness, femininity (softness), morality, cleanliness, and intelligence.


    If we're talking wife material.....she has to be a good cook and know how to clean properly also.
     
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    I would have to say spiritual.
     
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