- Oct 25, 2004
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kente417mojo said:Yes Carrie, you would be more secure than you are now. How many women have you heard of having their stuff taken in divorce? Not many. You have the security of the government behind you. Especially if you have a child by that man. I think it would be hard for him to take your home in court. I never said that all women are lookin to come up, but you have that option if you get pissed in case of divorce. This is what gets me. Men don't have a leg to stand on. It's not just Cali either. It's all around the country. It doesn't matter where I moved, under no circumstances would I get married. The only way I'd change my mind is if the laws were totally redone and even across the table, which will never happen.
Added to my past post:
Just to make it clear to, I know a lot of women do not agree with some of the laws that have to do with marriage, but you all benefit from them. I just think that more women should see why so many good men do not want to get married. Marriage is a selfish gesture. No one marries someone for the other person's sake. It's for yourself. A man's choice not to get married is also for himself. It's for the protection of his happiness, assets and sanity. That's the security that we don't get from marriage, so why give it up.
Why so bitter on Marriage Kente?. And I have a question for you- How can Marriage be an selfish act when it is supposed to be a merging of two Faithful individuals?. Marriage is not selfish- Marriage is a Union, a bond fromed to be unbreakable but yet it is. That is my opinion but if you could, please explain why it is Selfish.