Brothas, we all have had thoughts of marriage and maybe even acted on those thoughts and got married. My question is simple....what incentive is there for men to marry? Yes, women are important in our lives and we love them, but is it really worth it to put yourself out there and make yourself so vulnerable? I know this subject has come up in other threads, but I'm not sure if we really spoke on it alone. Do the positive and negative parts of marriage balance out? Is there more good than bad in a marriage for men? My opinion, as many know already, is that marriage is a lop-sided event that only benefits the woman (most of the time). What are your thoughts? Maybe some of the married folks have some points that haven't been presented yet (good or bad).