- Jan 20, 2015
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My son married a young lady with 2 kids. They have had another child; biological grandson for me. All mine
I asked this question, to church ladies, with my first grandson, and the answers were all different.
Some said they NEVER have met the women their son had a child with and don't want to!! (These were my church Sisters). There is no right or wrong answer. All opinions welcome.
The question:
Gifts and other things. If you had or have step grandchildren, do you buy them something everytime you get your biological grandson something?
My first grandson had 2 siblings and I gave them Christmas gifts.
I bought my grandson many things/clothing, toys, etc. Not a problem.
My sons current wife is young and I think she's a lil touched. She doesn't think I should by my biological grandson gifts unless I buy all 3 kids something.
That means when I see something I want to buy for my grandson I'm hesitant because of her. I don't like going over her head to my son. That puts him in an uncomfortable position of having to choose a side.
Would you buy only for you grand or all the siblings?
I asked this question, to church ladies, with my first grandson, and the answers were all different.
Some said they NEVER have met the women their son had a child with and don't want to!! (These were my church Sisters). There is no right or wrong answer. All opinions welcome.
The question:
Gifts and other things. If you had or have step grandchildren, do you buy them something everytime you get your biological grandson something?
My first grandson had 2 siblings and I gave them Christmas gifts.
I bought my grandson many things/clothing, toys, etc. Not a problem.
My sons current wife is young and I think she's a lil touched. She doesn't think I should by my biological grandson gifts unless I buy all 3 kids something.
That means when I see something I want to buy for my grandson I'm hesitant because of her. I don't like going over her head to my son. That puts him in an uncomfortable position of having to choose a side.
Would you buy only for you grand or all the siblings?