Black Relationships : What would you do if you found out your sister was having your husband baby?

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  1. nevar

    nevar Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Okay this is where complication is the name of this game. Okay your thinking you have a wonderful marriage. He treats you like a queen, put you first take care of the home, and have great sex! (so you think) Then one day you overhear your husband telling your sister to have an abortion. What would you do if you overheard your husband telling your sister to get an abortion? Could you forgive your husband and welcome your sister/husband baby? Or dump them both, and call the lawyer ASAP! Tell me your thoughts fam!:peace:
     
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    i couldn't personally
     
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    you couldn't personally what Mike cheat on your wife or ask the woman you pregnated to get an abortion.
     
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    I truly don't believe there is a correct answer to your question. This is definitely a deep situation that is a matter of belief and personal feelings. Only the involved will know what's right for them to do. Another persons abrupt opinion/comment from a speculative/ideological position can only cause more damage IMHO. Whomever is involved jus needs to know that no matter what choice is made make sure it's right with themselves. If they can deal or not is up to that person because it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or would do. It's their life and they have to live it.
     
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    cheat....n if i was in this situation i would ask for an abortion
     
  6. nevar

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    wow you would ask for her to get an abortion, and then what? you still risked her finding out right!
     
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    I'm confused

    Was the husband telling the sister to abort a baby they made together or was the sister just confiding in the husband and that was his advice?
     
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    :geek: call jerry springer.......
     
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    She overheard her husband on the phone telling her sister to get rid of the baby. He didn't tell her of the affair she overheard him telling her to get an abortion what would you do in that situation!
     
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    Are you sure the baby was his? Are you certain that she didn't just confide in the husband? There are too many loose questions....
     
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