Me and my husband married in Nov 2005, I recently caught him emailing/voice/instant chatting with a female he just met over the net. I created a program on our computer that logged everything he do. He emailed this female over 5 times from our home. And he stated, "For the New Years I want to fly you down here to be with me and my family and I want to be with you etc". He has no friends/no family members were we live and he just loss his job recently. I told him about it and he told me it was just Bulls*** talk, but in fact he called her too (stated in emailed). He stated how sorry he was and how he will never do it again. My trust is gone for him. What would you do? I told him i want his *** gone cuz if you start a marriage off wanting to cheat it will come to past.