Black Poetry : what is TOO MUCH independence?

baller

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{THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT TOPIC THAT I'VE DIRECTED AT WOMEN...BUT CAN BE APPLIED TO ANYONE.}

what is TOO MUCH independence?

if you have to show your independence
everytime you take a step

that's too much independence

if you have to prove your independence
everytime you open your mouth

that's too much independence

an argument everyday
is indicative of
a failed relationship in denial

one day, he'll wake up
and you'll be independent of him

what is too much independence?

if you ever tell your man
that he's less than a man
...thinking you're more of a man
yet, lie down, every night
next to him

{maybe you need a woman}

coz that's too much independence.

if you trample ALL OVA your partner's manhood
to prove your womanhood

THAT'S TOO **** MUCH INDEPENDENCE

if you're so independent
that you can't allow for interdependence

that's too much independence

if this is you
you don't know what independence is.

{learn aloneness}

i'm not saying that a woman should be dependent on a man
i'm saying that a woman should be a woman and let a man be a man.

anything else is too much independence.

if a man can't be a man
he's gonna bounce.

see what i'm saying.
 
BALLER

FEELING YOUR FLOW

sometimes you believe in your position
so much it's to a fault

because you hurt people or turn people off

this poem is for everyone not just women

>DSSNY<

PEACE TO DA SPRINGS and your family
 
THANKS So'ja

going into relationships, we sometimes forget that it's NO LONGER "I" or "ME"...it's "US" or "WE". once we fully understand that, things become easier.

but, you're right, those POSITIONS will kill us if that's all we're thinking about.

DA SPRINGS WILL TAKE CARE OF DA SPRINGS, MY BRUTHA...it's the EAST COAST that everyone's worried about.

keep yo' head up.
 
Stepping Out!

I got to give it up to the Baller--you said it, you meant it and you stand by it--not everyone would say it or even think it--how independence is too much independence--perhaps you are right in that when independence becomes a topic then it is toomuch independence because like anything else if you have it, it is apparrent and there is no need of discussion or inactments--Ra


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