Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by Liberty, Jan 4, 2016.
Any pet peeves?
gender war alert !
I never understood what a "gender war" was. Is any topic in the Relationship Forum a gender war?
One thing that some men (and women) do that makes me crazy is constantly complain about their significant other, with no intention of leaving them.
Also, continuously complaining about their ex makes me crazy, too.
black women never did anything that made me crazy......
Then why you so crazy right nah?
The only thing I've seen black women do that gets under my skin is to bash men, especially someone I'm interested in.
I'm part of that group, and I love my sisters with an unapologetic passion. And I truely hate it when it gets dismissed by the negative generalization that black men (in general totality) hate black women.
A major one definitely is no humility
When Black men attempt to dominate a discussion claiming women are more emotional and sensitive than men intellectually.
This one is my spouse. I think he does it on purpose. "Play the man of the house card". I'm the man of this house so I'm the one to decide what's best.
not a good thing to say.
He's trying to convince me he needs a new car. We currently have no car payment and I'm enjoying the extra funds. Play the head of household card. I play the budget and savings card.
(I'll give in by his BD in a few months, maybe) Not having car payments is a wonderful thing. Why, why, why, he wanna another car payment. He doesn't want to do a trade in. He wants to keep his paid for car and get a second car. Men and their expensive toys.
I have a problem spending when you don't need to. He knows that. We have always shared that value, until now, about the car. A midlife crisis.
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