My advice
Different people (female and male) have different standards for who they find attractive. It is fruitless and completely unnecessary to allow yourself to be defined by beauty myths. I myself am both weary and wary of men who speak or allude to much to a woman's looks. Mine or anyone else's. As much as a compliment doesn't hurt...I don't like women (or men) treated as specimens for men's (or women's) viewing pleasure.
Where I'm from, growing up, people of mixed race (black and white) - we call them point fives (0.5) - were considered the most beautiful. Later it became light skinned blacks, then "healthy" or "chubby" ones, and then those who had arabic/swahili blood, then Somalis, then those from the Coast, then thin ones then gosh i've lost track.
Also be wary of men who put you down on the basis of your looks. Or elevate you to god-like status on account of them for that matter. Your looks do not define you and one day down the line you'll look back and wonder what that was all about. You do not need to fit into any Beauty Ideal...there is none.