Hey my sistas of color! I am seventeen years old and need advice from my mature and wiser sistas. My ex and I are good friends now and we talk about almost anything. But he has been talking to this puerto rican girl and in his own little way he tries to compare her to me, as far as being beautiful on the outside. I have been told that I am beautiful from the inside out, but he makes seem like black woman don't compare to a latina woman when it comes to beauty. Do you think he says these kind of things to make me jealous or is it at a certain extent compared to other women of race, we're at the bottom of the barrel. I say this not as being ignorant in a mean way but because I don't understand. I see this alot especially in videos. You have to look a certain way to be considered "Beautiful". What is the definition of black women when it comes to beauty?