Black People : What is Porn for?

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What do you use porn for?

  1. Helps me physically release when I'm horny

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  2. Passes time when I'm bored

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  3. I like to see things that my partner won't do

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  4. Curiosity

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  5. I'm addicted to sex and porn is included

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  6. I'm just addicted to porn

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  7. I like to see things I wouldn't or can't otherwise engage in

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  8. All of the above

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  9. Other (none of the above)

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  10. I don't engage in porn (or I watch less than one 6 movies or porn sites a year)

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  1. medusanegrita

    medusanegrita Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    My son has looked at porn on the computer.
    Regular run-of-the-mill stuff... adults, hetero, naked, engaged in sex.
    He is technically grown, so no biggie, and the type of porn is cool.

    I'm not sure if it's curiosity or if he's a more or less an occassional porn watcher, but that's neither here nor there. There is no 'confronting' him about it, we already talked about this before. My concern was that (at the time) it wasn't age appropriate and I didn't want it to influence his thoughts about sex when it came time for him to have sex. Porn isn't really like watching an R rated movie, there is lots of other.... 'stuff' involved. I'd like for my kids to be as clear as possible of any preconcieved notions about sex before they have sex, and them and partner can be as niave as possible and learn whatever they want to learn together.

    So I talk to him and reiterated the same thing, no embarrassment.


    But for men, what is the purpose of porn again? I've got a couple of movies I rarely watch, I've seen other people's movies and two naked folks banging each other and it just doesn't cut it for me. I've seen naked pics of folks on the net when I'm doing research for different stuff like clitoris/penis/labia piercings, diseases, or just to see latest fashion in groin hair/no hair, but I rarely watch any type of porn on the net.

    When I want to see something hot and steamy I get more steam from an R-rated movie like The Matrix Revolutions (remember that scene with the 'orgy' and all the gyrations?), Love Jones, Jason's Lyrics, or some other semi-explicit love scene with black people. I suppose in a bind, if one is ovulating and horny and doesn't have a live partner.... regular porn will cut it.

    but for guys... porn is to maleness like butter is to toast... not necessary but they just seem to go together... or people don't even bat an eye when you talk about males and porn in the same sentence.

    but why? what does it do or what does it serve?

    Now I kinda get the nudie mags, I have no problem looking at a fine hard-bodied naked man, so I can imagine guys like looking at women of the same or similar caliber.

    But even with that.... I'm still lost in porn.
     
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    Peace and Blessings Sister,

    I'm no psychologist, but I think sex is used like a drug, to satiate oneself, i.e., self-medicating.

    In a society such as this, where few things are truly under one's control, the physical act of ejaculation / orgasm ... one of the few things we do have some control over ... is used over and over again, in place of the things one does not have control over ... their economic condition, opportunity, etc.

    The porn industry is so big, imagine if viable job opportunities were made as available.

    They give us what they want us to have. It will work to keep some in a stupor, and it will not work for others.

    For those it won't work on, they probably got something else in vast amounts, to keep our minds medicated.

    So long as we're not thinking clearly, productively, focused ... ya know?

    Love You!

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    it is the beginning of mental illness and isolation as it serves to only stimulate the mind and body into masturbation in the absesnce of a partner. Lex Steele, a very popular porn star, admitted on the Mike Bazden show back in 2008 that his material is for masterbation purposes. It also instills ideas in the mind that shouldn't be there, especially in males but women also in many but not all cases. It wouldn't be a good idea for a boy to join the school football team to only take a peek at other males private parts and compare, neither would it be a good idea to continually look at another male more endowed than you have sex. It could be the beginning of sexual inferiority complex and the desire to sleep with or experiment with other males. Homosexual men obsess over the size of other males continually. New Orleans is the 6th gayest city in America and you can see/hear it here all the time. Overall porn is 100% Humanism, which sees sex as a mere act between 2 or more people for the purpose of flesh gratification that requires no commitment or responsibility as kids can be aborted or subject to the morning after pill. :fyi:Many women in porn or mentally ill or not to far from it. sorry I have no links at this time
     
  5. medusanegrita

    medusanegrita Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    As do straight males, especially those who feel under-endowed. Males seem to forget that grown vaginas come in different sizes just like male penises and they stretch and retract to different sizes just like male penises. And no, it does not have anything to do with the size of the woman and thinking a bigger woman has a bigger vagina or a smaller woman has a smaller vagina.

    If you can't fit a certain woman then find a woman that can fit you. Women can accommodate all types and sizes but we are not one-size-fits-all.

    I don't have a counter argument I just want to add that.

    I could be very wrong but i thought women who knowingly engaged in porn with strangers or near-strangers would be using condoms are birth control? Who the heck wants to get preggers by their porn partner if it isn't their husband or boyfriend? I can't see that.
     
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    Sister ... i think sex has proven to be such a great stimulant, i.e., something to keep the masses happy, that they are giving it in bigger and bigger doses, at younger and younger ages. Our children are being overwhelmed with sexual images, sex in the songs, sex everywhere ... so much so ... that it's nothing to have young children yearning for this sexual release they've heard so much about ... by the time they are adults, if they act on it as children, they will need bigger and bigger doses to achieve the same end.

    In fact, I think homosexuality / lesbianism is just that, a search / quest for the ultimate orgasm.

    Remember Madonna and Britney kissing on MTV? A program geared to children.

    Keep the people focused on something that won't help them be independent in any way, shape, form, or fashion ... and use a tool that is natural to them to achieve this ... and you have porn.

    A natural stimulant that keeps the masses brain dead.

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    wow!

    dude, you need some iced tea or something...........
     
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    In fact, the whole sex toy industry, which i'd imagine is a part of the porn industry ... kinda substantiates my claim.

    I've heard Sisters talk about their sex toys, and how they've had to graduate from one type to another.

    For example, they might have started out with a AA battery operated contraption, eventually needing a high voltage generator to power their tools.

    I've also heard, that once Sisters get so deep into these sex toys, a man can't even please them anymore.

    I don't know ... but if it's true ... yall be careful.

    They'll have your body parts not working like they should anymore ... you'll be needing the kitchen sink in your vagina or anal cavity, to achieve an orgasm.

    Love You!

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  10. HyperKill

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    Naah a shot of Capt Morgan w/ lemon and rasberry juice would do now.
     
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